Many providers require a deposit for reserving their time and I am one of them. Most of us accept direct deposits through a payment service like Venmo or an electronic gift card through Amazon. But this leaves a footprint and, if you don’t desire one, then I wanted to let you know about alternative options to send a deposit discreetly, as discretion is a passion of mine.

It is very important to me that I receive a deposit to reserve our time together because I say no to others when I say yes to you. I have listed the most discreet methods below:

Cash: Pre-pay deposits in person at the end of sessions.

Physical Gift Cards: The easiest and best gift card option I have found is a physical Amazon card. Prepaid credit cards are a real pain and cumbersome in many ways, such as not being able to use all the money on the card to certain businesses refusing to accept them. Amazon is my preferred gift card of choice because it can easily be purchased at a drug store or supermarket. In order to send the deposit, you scratch off the silver foil on the back of the card and type out or photograph the combination of letters and numbers on the back of the card. While this is still digitally sending it, it does not leave the same electronic footprint, thus offering further discretion.

Cryptocurrency: This is where technophobes tense up, but I will do my best to explain cryptocurrency in layman’s terms. Cryptocurrencies are digital assets that function similar to money. The value fluctuates just like the dollar and has its own market, but this should not be daunting. The main form of cryptocurrency is Bitcoin. Sending and receiving cryptocurrency works similar to PayPal in my experience, but is not affiliated with a personal identity, keeping your transactions secure and anonymous. You have a digital wallet with deposited funds where you send and receive funds through unique and discreet addresses that are tailored to each transaction. Some wallets (the host of where you keep your cryptocurrency) will let you send and receive via email address, but the unique codes are the most discreet and my preferred payment method. Here is a good article explaining the basics.

The aforementioned three methods have served me well and have ensured everyone’s discretion well. My goal with every interaction is to leave both parties feeling respected and safe. There are always options in this world, and I’m here to provide them in all sorts of forms, whether that be avoiding a digital footprint or fun in the boudoir.

Love your Mistress,

Ramona Ryder